Melissa Reddick

Hey. Here’s a secret someone should let you in on:

You are part of God’s plan even if you’re single.

You’re part of God’s plan even if you don’t have a boyfriend, a girlfriend, a husband, a wife, a kid, ten kids.

You’re part of God’s plan even if you slept with 10 dudes today and you’re gonna sleep with 12 tomorrow. That goes for either gender by the way, either way.

You are part of God’s plan right now. Today. No matter what you are doing.

God’s plan is always to let you choose.

Is you snorting blow off of the rim of a dumpster behind a Chick-Fil-A at 5 am part of God’s plan? I mean…probably not, but who am I to say? Maybe that’s what you need to do to realize who you are and what you do and don’t want to do to make the world a better place.

Is it something I would advise a friend, a client, a loved one, or myself to do? No, not at this stage of my life.

I would say throw the coke away and don’t buy any more. Stop looking for God at the bottom of a plastic baggie. Stop buying drugs that could be laced with baby formula or something else that would kill you when you snort it up your nose. Stop doing heroin, or fentanyl, or recreational percocets, and any other drug altogether. If you can’t do that today, then find a way so that tomorrow you’re one step closer to it.

That’s what I would say. But your relationship with God is your relationship with God, not mine. I don’t know what the Hierarchy of Light will do with what you learn from your own life experiences and choices. Thank God I don’t have to either. All I can do is remind you that you always have a choice.

You’re part of God’s plan alone. You don’t need to prove you are worthy of love to God by getting married, or having a baby.

Of course the nuclear family is the cornerstone upon which society is built. God is going to love you even if you don’t have one of those. If you haven’t created your own family yet, it’s okay. God knows why, even if you don’t yet.

If you’ve walked away from a family that you told God you would build, God knows why you did that too. The family might not, you might be wracked with guilt over it. But God is the one being in the world you can turn to for forgiveness. If you are God, can you forgive yourself?

You’re okay. God is still working with you, through you, and for you right now to this very day. Are you ready to work with God, work for God, and let God work through you? Or do you want to fight with Him and Her a little longer?

Either way…it is okay.